We (my wife and I) have a loved one in whom we have observed a pattern, and it comes to mind at this Christmas season. Each year, we have multiple occasions to give this person a gift. Sometimes we do a better job selecting a gift than others. It's just not possible to hit a home run every time you step up to the plate, right?
So, what is the pattern? Some years and on some occasions, we can deliver the gift in person. Other times, it must be delivered to them by another. No matter how the package is delivered, though, the next time we have the opportunity to see this person face to face, we are very likely to experience an attempt to return the gift, unused, maybe even unopened, to us, because we can use or enjoy it more than they can, or because they don't deserve it.
Now, I truly seek to not take myself too seriously, so I am not deeply hurt or offended by this behavior. It can be frustrating, though, to select and prepare a gift for someone, and have them, essentially, reject it. And if you've truly worked and sacrificed to be able to give this gift, it is hurtful to have it returned to you. A gift that is returned to the giver unused was clearly not appreciated to the degree that the giver had hoped when they selected it.
As I've thought about this person recently, I've wondered how they could possibly have any understanding of the most essential truths of the gospel of Christ. And this leaves me troubled for their soul.
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. - Eph. 2:8-9 (ESV)
How should we accept gifts given to us? With gratitude! If something is given to us, we should enjoy it to the fullest. This clearly means different things in different cases. Some gifts should be played with. Some should be worn. Some should be displayed in a place of prominence in our home. But no gift should be returned to the giver.
What does it mean to enjoy God's gift of salvation for you who are saved? For starters, it means you should enjoy it, which implies that you must not live as one who had not been given this same gift. You should let God and man see the fruit of a life changed by the gospel. And you should offer thanks and praise to God in gratitude for this indescribable gift.